LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug

I own few butt plugs, all silicone, so I decided to give metal a try.  Metal is great for temperature play, and is hygienic and easy to clean, which is what attracted me.  The LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug with Heart Crystal caught my eye as it’s so pretty!  It has a heart shaped jewel in the end and a very slim neck which is ideal if you want your plug to stay in place, as the muscles in your anus grip around it.

Packaging & Looks

The LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug with Heart Crystal comes in a stylish box displaying the plug through a clear window.  Size information and instructions are on the box.
 LuxGem Small Metal Butt Plug
Taking out the plug, I have a proper look at it; it’s so pretty!  It’s small too; although I bought the medium, it’s a good size for someone fairly new to anal play.  The tip is gently tapered and the plug is relatively short in length.  It’s not too wide either.  It’s heavy, and made of gloriously smooth aluminium with a pretty heart shaped silver crystal in the base.  A proper bit of booty bling!

The LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug with Heart Crystal is cold to the touch, even at room temperature.  It’s fantastic quality, no seams or blemishing, and the crystal is stuck down firmly.   The neck is long and slim so should allow me to get a good grip on it!

An easy Insertion

I’ve tried the plug at room temperature but I prefer to use it warmed up. I do this by placing it into a bowl of warm (not hot) water for 10 mins before application. Whilst it’s warming I have a play to get me ready!
LuxGem Small Metal Butt Plug
Once the plug is warmed up nicely, I remove it from the water and apply a decent amount of water based lube to both the Butt Plug and my bum (although you can use any type of lube with metal).  I find insertion easiest when I lay on my back with my knees bent upwards.  The tapered tip helps make insertion nice and easy, and it only takes a minute or two to get it inside. Once inside, it can feel a little strange as it’s a bit of a shock to have something there, so I slowly count to 30 and by the time I’ve finished, my body has become accustomed to it being there.

Play time

Metal feels incredible inside me; it stretches and fills me like nothing else.  The unforgiving firmness offers a very different sensation to silicone.  It feels tight inside me.   I combine anal play with an internal dildo and a clitoral vibrator, using a combination of different materials (silicone for clit, firm silicone or glass internally).  Having your bum filled is an incredible feeling!   I choose butt plugs as I like to keep them fairly still whilst I pump away at my g-spot with a dildo or vibrator.

When approaching orgasm, the muscles in my bum clench around the plug and I feel myself inadvertently try to push out the plug as I come.  This is where usually my plugs come out, but this one stayed in place, which I really like.

Plugs can narrow your vagina as they push against the back vaginal wall, which can make sex feel incredible but I struggle with this as I’m quite narrow anyway! So I’ve only used this solo.

Temperature play

The LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug holds onto temperature really well. I usually warm it up for around 10 minutes and it’s always still warm after I’ve finished play.
LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug
I occasionally walk around whilst wearing butt plugs, but only ones I feel comfortable aren’t going to pop out!  This is a great size to wear, although the heart can start to dig into my bum cheeks after a while so I don’t wear it for prolongued periods of time.

LuxGem Small Metal Butt Plug


I thoroughly recommend this gorgeous little plug for anal beginners or intermediate players.  The only con I can think of is that it doesn’t come with a bag for storage, which would have been nice considering the price. Otherwise, it’s pretty perfect!  I’d recommend this little plug for both men and women.

Where to buy!

If you would like to own your own LuxGem Medium Metal Butt Plug with Heart Crystal you can purchase one from Lovehoney here for £24.99.*

 *Prices correct at time of publishing.

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